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 | Oswego Building Reps by Bringing Others Down |
Anonymous writes "Happy people want other people to be happy. Unhappy people cannot stand happy people, so they do what they can to make them unhappy. Most do this unconsciously but there are some who intentionally want to hurt another. Basically, we inflict on people what we feel about ourselves and life. It is that simple. I have watched people dedicate good portions of their lives to convince others to dislike certain individuals who live happy lives. Shallow minded critics who need to put on a front with in their material world to hide their own unhappiness and pain they, themselves live with day in and day out. Some may appear to have everything going for them from what people see on the exterior. BUT when one must excessively listen to a shallow critics same old song and dance about someone in particular? Myself? I see right through it and simply wonder what is really going on,they should feel compelled to carry on in this manner? Petty jealousies, not having the things in life that bring true happiness and leading lives filled with insecurities. Many times these people will feel the need to align themselves along people who have wealth or portray having wealth, not the path to true happiness. One particular Rep Builder's song and dance, I've listened to about others and from others about myself, over many years- it always comes back to bite them in the butt. Basically, the truth will always comes out in time. Once others get the opportunity to know the 'evil' person, then the Rep Builder typically must turn their back on their temporary friend. Their insecurities and shallowness will not allow them to continue their friendship once the smokescreen is cleared. There may be a desire to argue or try to correct the other person who is being unkind but that rarely accomplishes anything. It only leads to more drama which is exactly what the ego of the other person craves. So the best thing you can do in such a situation is to not take it personally. .
Try to always remember that what we see in others, is a reflection of what we feel about ourselves. Anytime you judge another, you are judging yourself. So the next time someone tries to bring you down, realize that what they are saying has nothing to do with you. You are just their target. Happy, good people make lifelong friends. Shallow, insecure people have temporary friends coming and going throughout their lives. Builder's of strife will probably lead their entire lives miserably, trying to prove otherwise. Listen with your eyes, stay happy and God Bless. "
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Posted by hostmaster on Friday, September 03 @ 04:58:09 PDT (117 reads)
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 | Re: Respected Lawyer? |
Anonymous writes "It's too bad the author of this post had to include a comment about a foundation that has clearly tried to help provide for the youth in our community. I'm sure K.C. puts in many hours and receives nothing in return other than the satisfaction that he is helping kids. The issue the author has is with the age of the girl in this relationship. In the future, stick to the issue and don't drag down the good being done. However, I have heard stories from other sources about this inappropriate relationship. The girl in question is not much older than the kids this foundation provides for. It is wrong. The blame, though, can't be placed solely on K.C. It takes two to tango, as they say. I'm not quite sure what "Miss Mexico", I think we should give her a nickname also, is thinking about being with a man in his forties. This relationship can only do harm to the name of both parties involved. You also went on to mention the New Vision program for high school students. Once again, a program I have heard nothing but positives about. I can understand a concern parents may have, but one incident does not reflect the value of this entire program. Stick to the issue!"
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Posted by hostmaster on Friday, September 03 @ 04:53:58 PDT (48 reads)
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 | FANNY BURNED |
Anonymous writes "I recognized the name on the LION's website posted on Homegain as family as a
woman who sued a downtown tanning salaon for getting burned in one of the tanning
beds. She lost in court and then appealed and lost again. Come to find out later the
downtown salon wasn't the first tanning salon whe sued for getting her fanny burned. "
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Posted by hostmaster on Wednesday, August 25 @ 02:53:55 PDT (33 reads)
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 | Respected Lawyer? |
Anonymous writes "When did the E.C. foundation change its motto from "Dream Big" to "Dream Young"? Allegedly, a mid-forty year old lawyer, we'll call K.C., has been sleeping with an 18 year old girl. I understand that 18 is legal. However, I believe there are ethics and morals at play here. Are there not? This lawyer is supposed to be a well respected member of this community and what he's doing to this girl is just WRONG! At 18, kids are still very impressionable and I believe that he is taking advantage of his position. This girl is a former intern of his and worked with him through the New Vision program for high school. Is this our definition of higher education? It's nice to know that we can send our kids off to school where they can be preyed upon by older, unscrupulous men."
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Posted by hostmaster on Tuesday, August 24 @ 04:11:50 PDT (202 reads)
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 | Harrington |
Anonymous writes "Its amazing how Ed cares about everyone property except for his own. Do you remember how long everyone had to look at his burn out house? ( 10- 15 years I think) I believe he still has those fancy curtains in his window. (looks like garbage bags)
Ed for mayor what a joke. When he was on the council for 1 term I think if he did his job then he could have still been on it. After 1 term the people realized what kind of guy he was.
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Posted by hostmaster on Thursday, August 19 @ 03:18:26 PDT (586 reads)
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 | SMTA- New Oswego Support Group |
Anonymous writes "Sick Minds Think Alike, a new 12 step program to the weary minds who relentlessly write, edit, lose too much sleep, cant stand to see anyone happy and can never let go of the past by regularly contributing to the Oswegonyliars club.
Get out there Feeling isolated can increase feelings of depression and low self-confidence, contributing to the continual burning desire to bring others down in order to bring yourselves up. Help yourself by making an effort to enjoy the social scene a bit more. Getting involved in group activities can take your mind off your worries and fretting over others' success and happiness, and SMTA can be a great source of support.
Be creative Boost your mood by getting in touch with your creative side! Creative activities like painting, drawing or playing an instrument are absorbing and relaxing – and can even help you forget your worries for a while. A great avenue to deter unproductive cycles of behavior such as photographing cracks in mortar, spending hours and sometimes days obsessively researching the internet in hopes of exposing people leading happy lives.
Go easy on yourself If you’re having a difficult time, go easy on yourself – don’t load yourself down with demands and expectations. It’s easy to be self-critical – why not focus instead on praising yourself for the positive things you’ve done????????????????????????????
Remember, Sick Minds Think Alike! It’s OK to ask for help! "
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Posted by hostmaster on Wednesday, August 18 @ 01:43:38 PDT (33 reads)
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 | Re:New railing on Utica St. bridge.... |
Anonymous writes "...well, I guess the new rails are a bit low in height so one might be able to imagine a good snowpack on the bridge building up and allowing a sliding vehicle to climb up and over the edge(like they do in Syracuse once in awhile). Would make a pretty good pre-wash for the junkyard once it hits the drink. I guess now since there's a potential danger there we're just gonna have to tear it down like all the buildings in this town; the economy's already beneath ground level so at least it'll keep a few working on demolitions."
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Posted by hostmaster on Saturday, August 14 @ 03:47:33 PDT (40 reads)
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 | TIC, TIC, TIC..... |
Anonymous writes "Well, here it goes folks. I was above this nonsense and swore I'd never lower myself to give attention to the cowardly roars echoing from the local trashy web site oswegonyliars. The way I see it after observing the website folks? We are amidst a time bomb ready to detonate TIC, TIC, TIC; an obsessive botttom feeder bordering on insane. I dont have an extensive education in psychology but know enough this bozo has some serious mental issues. After the collapse of Saint Louis' Church, he's managed to work himself up into the same full blown crazed -frenzie he couldnt control which lost him his seat as a city Councilor. I cant believe he recongnizes his outlandish behavior and I find it shocking he'd continue to libel the same residents whom called him out legally in the past. I gotta believe he paid some type of monetary price to hire representation against his legal problems from his previous mental, shall we say episodes? He starts to appear as though he might be making some sense, but just cannot stay on level. It's a given, the excitement takes him over the edge. One good point made on his site sends him traveling: traveling through another dimension -- a dimension not only of sight and sound but of mind. A journey into a wondrous land whose boundaries are that of imagination. Someone warn him of a signpost up ahead: his next stop? The Twilight Zone! TIC, TIC, TIC..... "
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Posted by hostmaster on Thursday, August 12 @ 05:56:33 PDT (172 reads)
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 | response to input needed |
Anonymous writes "I think the landlord can do this since he owns the property and if the rent payed is to be set and payed on a certain date , you have an obligation to pay it then . unless you have a grace period he acknowledges.even if you have beed a model tennant he can do this unfortunately. sorry you have to rent from someone who is obviously heartless and unfeeling for someone who is struggling and making every attempt to pay him. It is a shame some landlords pray on individuals like that. hope this answers some of your questions."
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Posted by hostmaster on Wednesday, August 04 @ 03:25:30 PDT (30 reads)
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 | reply to the hudder post |
Anonymous writes "if my daughter is the exception to the rule or a needle in the perverbial haystack , what do i need to get my head out of my ass for?? all I was saying is that the program is supposed to be designed to help individuals that need the help. what did you get denied one time and now you are bitter to anyone who gets service??hum.... i wonder if i hit the nail on the head. stop criticising people about getting the help they need. you know those who live in glass houses should not throw stones!!!!"
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Posted by hostmaster on Thursday, July 29 @ 05:07:43 PDT (30 reads)
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 | Re: Hudders.... |
Anonymous writes "....BEHOLD!!....Oswego's new age mission statement all summed-up in one posting."
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Posted by hostmaster on Wednesday, July 28 @ 04:09:42 PDT (23 reads)
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 | comment on the hudder blog post |
Anonymous writes "you know you have a pretty poor attitude where the "hudders" are concerned. Not all people that are on hud and recieve benefits are slugs or low-lifes. the program is designed to help people in need of services. granted alot of them dont want to work and want to lay around but some do not. some that get benefits dont make enogh money to live on and that extra really does help IE: food stamps and wic for the kids. so get off your soap box and stop slamming everyone who is on the system.my daughter happens to get services for her and her daughter . It really helps them get by especially with the food stamp help. I know at least they can eat good meals on what is provided. "
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Posted by hostmaster on Thursday, July 22 @ 02:19:04 PDT (551 reads)
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